The conflict with ChristyKitsune is over⁠⁠

10.08.2023-26.10.2025 (DD/MM/YYYY)

[Note: Links may not be working at the time of reading this text. This refers to the addresses where events took place in history. Deleted comments are no longer visible. Clarification about the "video with Christy" in her text. When she said "video of me," she meant of her furry character.]

ChristyKitsune(publically)[https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11240110]:

Harrasser still spreading hate but i'd like us to move on.[clarification: Christy named Deffethazrashid this way because of his response to her initial false accusation]

October 24, 2025 11:58:59 AM

The person who harasses me, the one from ukraine/russia has been posting to people i know user pages with a youtube link with a video of me. Just delete the post. If you want, report the video. I only know due to people telling me.

I’d declare peace with them if that’s what they truly want still, I’m not interested in dragging this out any longer than it needs to be. I’d rather forgive, forget, and move forward. But I honestly don’t understand what the goal of all this harassment has been. It’s gone far beyond simple disagreement, and it’s been hurtful and exhausting to deal with.

FA ended up banning them because of their behaviour after i reported it, and I understand that they’re upset about it. I would be too in their position. But the truth is, I don't think i can get them unbanned, and if I could, I genuinely would, just so we could finally put this whole situation behind us.

When things first started, I made the harassment public on Twitter because it had gone too far with the nazi stuff. It wasn’t about revenge or trying to ruin anyone it was about protecting myself and showing what I was dealing with. I should have been thorough before posting it.

Some time after they first messaged me on Telegram, which was the only time I ever said anything to them other than leave me alone, and their original fa ban ended and they message me, they admitted that they had been a minor at that time. I want to be clear that I had absolutely no idea of their age when they first contacted me.

They did offer peace once before, and in that same note, they acknowledged being underage when they first reached out. However, they also used that fact to claim that I had been a bully. (They are now an adult, and I’m sharing this detail not as an attack, but simply as context and information. *)

At the time, their offer of peace felt as though it came with the assumption that they had done nothing wrong during the events of that year, That made it difficult for me to accept their offer in good faith. I believe that if someone genuinely wants to make peace, there should be at least some acknowledgement of what happened, even a small one, and then we can leave it at that. I will also say that i am also to fault.

If they truly want to make peace now, I’m open to it, but not under the pretense that they weren’t the one who aided in starting this whole situation. If they’ve deleted everything connected to this matter, I’ll do the same out of respect to honour that peace. I’ve already said I’m willing to remove what I shared on Twitter, as long as they do the same on their end, including on their Russian posting site and YouTube channel.

At this point, I don’t want any more conflict.

And they could just go make another account and go on with their life, I wouldn't do anything about it. I don't need to know how someone is better than me, or what they've accomplished more. Good to hear they've done and achieved many things with their life than me.

I don't want people going after them if that is what has happened. I don't seek them out and I don't care what they say or do.

https://tinyurl.com/y2bvbbzx

Deffethazrashid[comment under https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11240110]:

Christy, please listen. I’m asking you to read this; I am writing this in peace.

I’m glad you want peace, and I want it too, but there’s something I need to say.

You are still labeling our initial interaction as harassment.

I simply want you to understand that my responses weren't driven by malice, but by the fact that you leveled baseless accusations against me on Twitter.

I was genuinely hurt. I was bullied, and importantly, you dehumanized me. Recall that when I responded, you simply mocked me and called me a crazy idiot.

You claimed you didn't know I was a minor, but remember how you told me, "Rashid, grow up," and other things like that?

I’m not saying I was perfect. I understand which letter you were referring to at the end, and there are aspects of it for which I could apologize.

But I ask you to note that the commentators above are actively telling you that I am entirely to blame and are calling for further action.

This bullying and dehumanization deeply hurt me between the ages of 16 and 18, and you know what happened to my accounts. I mean, those are irreversible consequences.

You are presenting me as a crazy stalker rather than a person. It felt like you were cruelly abusing me.

I responded to you because you were destroying my mental health within a community where I just wanted to make friends when I was 16.

I am not rejecting peace, but I need an acknowledgment of these things. If you wish, we can discuss this here or on Discord.

(On a technical note, that Russian website doesn't allow users to delete posts, but I can try to get it removed by contacting the site admins. I will try writing to them.)

But regardless, what I’ve written here is fundamentally important.

I don't know what to expect from you, or if you will lash out at me now.

(Please note that my replies during our discussion may be irregular due to real-life commitments.)

ChristyKitsune[comment under https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11240110]:

When I posted on Twitter, I reacted to the situation as I experienced it. Using the phrase “crazy idiot” was inappropriate, and I regret saying it. I did not intend to attack you personally; it was my way of responding to what was happening at that time.

When I said “grow up,” I genuinely did not know you were underage. Online, I generally assume people are adults unless they state otherwise. In English, “grow up” is a phrase used to point out behavior that seems immature or unreasonable. It was directed at behavior, not at you personally.

I cannot control what others say or do. In my journal, I asked that others leave you alone, and I do not support harassment. Their words and actions are their responsibility, not mine.

I acknowledge that many of these events occurred — to you. I do not deny your experiences, and I also hope mine can be recognized. I understand that you feel strongly about the things you have expressed regarding our interactions. I am not dismissing your perspective, and I acknowledge that you have shared your feelings and experiences. I hope that recognizing both of our perspectives can help us move on, without reopening disputes or assigning blame.

I feel that it is important to allow these events to remain in the past. I do not wish to revisit old disputes, debates, or reinterpretations of previous interactions. My hope is that we can both move forward calmly, taking care to de-escalate any tension and avoid further conflict.

I am setting this boundary not as a criticism or rejection of your experiences, but as a way to prevent ongoing disputes and maintain a stable distance between us. I trust that by keeping to what has already been said and respecting these boundaries, there will be no need for further interaction, and we can each continue without unnecessary stress and move on with life.

Deffethazrashid[comment under https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/11240110]:

In fact, you haven't acknowledged the fundamental essence.

I agree to de facto peace because this whole situation is tiresome, but the situation hasn't been resolved "de jure."

I think we can close the discussion due to conflicting axioms. Essentially, you're trying to impose a solution on your terms with minimal acknowledgment of anything on your part.

In short:

Peace? - YES ✅️

Agreement/recognition of both parties/"legal contract" - no ❌️

Christie, I'm not saying I'm perfect in everything, but I don't agree with the way you're trying to impose this on me from a dominant position.

That's it, peace, no further interactions, but no conditions.

I'm quitting this game.

And yes, I know that some of the words used in the text about achievements were unacceptable. I admit that. But it was a reaction to the situation.

[deleted by FA administration later]

Deffethazrashid[note on the FA website to the ChristyKitsune account]:

[i]Hi, the FA administration immediately deletes my comments. (because FA is an absurd site that interferes with the negotiations)

You don't have to reply to me in this case, as I'll just see "read" in the message list. Please don't report this account. This comment is a copy of something I sent you from other accounts in the journal, but the admins immediately deleted it.[/i]

In fact, you haven't acknowledged the fundamental essence.

I agree to de facto peace because this whole situation is tiresome, but the situation hasn't been resolved "de jure."

I think we can close the discussion due to conflicting axioms. Essentially, you're trying to impose a solution on your terms with minimal acknowledgment of anything on your part.

In short:

Peace? - YES ✅

Agreement/recognition of both parties/"legal contract" - no ❌

Christie, I'm not saying I'm perfect in everything, but I don't agree with the way you're trying to impose this on me from a dominant position.

That's it, peace, no further interactions, but no conditions.

I'm quitting this game.

And yes, I know that some of the words used in the text about achievements were unacceptable. I admit that. But it was a reaction to the situation.

[There was no response after that, but Christy deleted the original post with the erroneous accusation that started the conflict.]